Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Relationships 101

In a relationship, we must first understand that that the foundation is trust. In order to trust someone we must first believe in them. That could mean many things. Believing in someone or something that you cannot see yet or hear or know for a fact is the beginning of Faith. Heb.11:1 "Now Faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen." We we are at the turning point in our life as to whether we are going to follow God or not, whether to accept salvation or not, then we have to realize that the beginning is to choose. Then the second step is to believe. The one requirement for salvation is to believe because you cannot serve something that you do not believe in. You cannot be in a relationship with someone that you do not believe in. For instance, if you were searching for a mate and found the perfect mate. Just picture it, a slum lord basically. Someone who never attempts to better themself who is always negative and who is constantly creating drama. Could you fall in love with someone like that. Yes. I know you are a little confused so just continue reading. You could fall in love with someone like that if you believed that was their best. You could also fall in love with them if you believed they could be better. It is a hope that you are believing in. You are believing in that person though. No matter what. In the same aspect we must first believe in God. This would be the first step to being in a relationship will God.

1 comment:

  1. At the price of sounding like a fool....


    Good post. I agree. Nothing can be accomplished without trust. I would ad, that value is determined by meaning, and meaning is the fruit of context and personal needs. So, one persons trash is another treasure. With that being said, I believe reciprocation is the foundation of a relationship; balance so to speak. And if you ask me (I know you didn't, lol) I 'd say that god is love, and Love is balance or harmony. Loving someone else is helping them find balance...helping them meet their needs. So yes "In the same aspect we must first believe in God. This would be the first step to being in a relationship with God." You must first love and find balance for yourself, then you can share that with another. If not, its not a reciprocal relationship and someone's needs are I higher priority than another. And if that's the case, the golden rule is absent.

    Much love,

    Grant

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